NICOLE'S STORY

Supporting Nicole through her second birth was a profound honor, especially knowing the shadows her first birth had cast. Her first experience was a grueling, multi-day ordeal marked by trauma, exhaustion, and a shoulder dystocia that had left her with lingering fears. This time, Nicole was determined to reclaim her birthing story.

We arrived at the hospital in the evening. Nicole’s husband, their young daughter, and her mother were present, creating a circle of love and support around her. From the start, Nicole exuded a quiet confidence, a marked difference from the apprehension she’d carried during her first birth. Her strength was palpable, radiating through every contraction.

As labor progressed, we worked together tirelessly, staying awake for 24 hours. I guided her through each surge, encouraging her to lean into her body’s wisdom. She breathed deeply, vocalized with purpose, and moved instinctively, choosing positions that felt right to her. Her husband was by her side, whispering words of encouragement, while her mother provided a steady, grounding presence. Their daughter, though young, was a tender reminder of the journey Nicole had already walked.

When the moment of delivery arrived, Nicole faced another shoulder dystocia—a situation that could have triggered old fears. But this time, she met it with calm determination. The medical team acted swiftly and skillfully, and I supported Nicole in maintaining her focus and breathing through the moment. She was incredible—her strength and resilience shone as she worked with her body to bring her baby into the world.

Finally, her baby emerged—a beautiful, healthy addition to their family. The room was filled with tears of joy and relief. Nicole’s trauma-free experience this time was a testament to her courage and preparation. She had faced her fears, reclaimed her narrative, and proved to herself just how strong she truly was.

As I watched Nicole cradle her newborn, surrounded by her family, I couldn’t help but feel immense pride in her journey.

Birth is unpredictable and intense, but Nicole showed that it can also be empowering and healing. This birth wasn’t just the beginning of a new life; it was also a new chapter for Nicole, one defined by triumph and strength.

Thank you so much Nicole and family for allowing me to support you. Witnessing you singing to both of your beautiful children moments after birth is something that I will never forget.